How To Stop Your Man From Cheating

Keeping a man faithful is not as difficult as it
may appear at first. For starters, most of them
want to be true to their spouses, but for that
extra boost to ensure fidelity, try these steps.

Respect him as you would want
him to respect you

Remind him from time to time
why he's your man . In other words,
take the time to make him feel special
as if he's the only one in your life. Tell
him how handsome he is every now
and then.

Validate your man on a daily
basis . Whether he works outside of the
house, is currently unemployed or a
stay-at-home Dad, (if you're married)
your man still needs to feel like a man.
You know he is, make sure he knows it
as well.

Appreciate all the things he does
for you . It doesn't matter whether
those things are big or small, they are
worth, at the least, a thank you.

Spice things up every once in a
while. Tell him your fantasies, listen to
his. Don't be afraid to initiate romance.

Live, Love and Laugh. Laugh often
with him, not at him. Tell him a joke
that you think he might like or clip out
comics from the newspaper and place
them on the fridge, send text or e-mail
messages.

Listen first, and then talk. Let him
finish what he has to say before you
interrupt. Ask questions if you're not
sure about what he said. Do not go with
the general notion; all women are nags.
Make a difference. Listen more, talk
less.

Be his biggest supporter! Men
don't like to admit it, but they need
reassurances as well. Showing him that
you support him and are there with him
through day to day struggles will help to
ensure that he doesn't have a need for
someone else to fill that need.

Don't lose your own self respect.
Stop blaming him for everything and
understand that some things are
beyond your or his control.

Feed him. Men love when a woman
cooks for them like mum does. You
don't have to cook exactly like her but,
it's the action that counts. Women
claim men are dogs but remember if you
feed a dog he will never leave home!!!

Hold and Cuddle your man, his day
can be just as bad as your day.
Remember they are big kids and when
they got upset when they were younger,
mums held them close.

When leaving him alone make
sure he has everything needed.
Remember you are already dressed and
ready to go and he is capable of getting
those things. It also shows you care
about his needs or wants as well.

Don't ever baby him. He will pull
away from you. He needs to feel like
he's the provider. If you're married, take
the family budget to give him what he
likes. It's the effort that counts.

Work on yourself. Learn to appear
neat and appealing to tour man at all
times. Take your time to get those kinky
and sexy undies, night wears and
dressing that will make him want you
more.

Remember, if a man has all he needs in a
woman, he will never go looking for another.

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