I know, comfy clothes are the best. After a long day
at the office, all you want to do is change out of your
work attire and put on your sweats or jammies.
But, comfy clothes aren't a turn-on to your man. Men
constantly complain that once women are in a
relationship (or married), they stop trying and the
sexy lingerie disappears and is replaced with cozy
clothes.
So, if you want to spice things up, shed those comfy
clothes and wear something that's a turn-on to your
partner.
Mistake #2: NOT Being The Initiator
Men love when women initiate sex. Men need to feel
wanted, and the best way to show your man that you
want him is to initiate sex. So, get involved! Take the
lead and get your partner into bed with you.
Mistake #3: Giving Too Many Orders
Sex isn't a time to be bossy and controlling. Men
don't like hearing a detailed list of instructions. You
should 100 percent tell your partner what you like,
but keep in mind he wants to pleasure you, not feel
like he's back in school.
Be positive; he wants to hear what he can do to
please you and how it will excite you.
Mistake #4: Not Being Confident
Confidence is sexy. Men like women to be sure of
themselves all of the time. Being proud of your body,
especially when you're naked, is one of the sexiest
things you can do.
Don't hide your curves or the imperfections you think
you have. Embrace your body.
Mistake #5: Don't Expect Him To Do
Everything
Sex is an activity that involves two people. You have
to be present; don't expect him to do everything. You
want your man to feel like you're taking an active role
in his pleasure.
Mistake # 6: Worrying About What You Look
Like
Wanting to turn the lights off or trying to keep your
clothes on during sex shows your man that you're
insecure. Remember, confidence is sexy.
When you leave anything on, you're showing your
man that you have something to hide. Unless you're
wearing lingerie with a garter belt and thigh-highs,
lose whatever you have on. Worrying about how you
look during sex stops you from enjoying yourself.
Mistake #7: Don't Expect Him To Read Your
Mind
Men aren't mind readers. They don't always know
what you want or what you're thinking unless you
tell them. Communication is key, even in sex!
Mistake #8: Faking It
If you're faking it, you're the one who's losing out.
Sex is supposed to be enjoyable and filled with
orgasms. If your man isn't "getting you there," tell
him!
Show him what you like and give him a chance to
pleasure you. You're wasting your time and his if you
don't give him a chance to make you feel great.
Mistake #9: Losing Your Sexuality
Once you're in a committed relationship, it's easy not
to make your sex life a priority. Perhaps you're too
tired, you're caught up with being a new mother or
you're critical of the newfound weight that you just
noticed appeared on your thighs.
You have to remember to pay attention to yourself
and your partner. If you put your man or your
relationship on the back burner, one day it will burn
up.
Ladies, it's time to remember that every woman
should have an inner sexual goddess. Find yours and
go have some fun!
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