anymore
, use these 18 signs and ways to catch a cheating
partner to catch your lover in the act!
#1 Watch the signs. Do you see a change in your
partner's behavior recently? Have they started
working out, dressing better, or started using a new
seductive intense evening perfume? They may have
no reason for the changes, and almost always, these
changes may seem very spontaneous.
#2 Drop by unannounced. Every now and then,
drop by unannounced to their workplace or come
back home early. Don't make it obvious that you're
just spying on them. Instead, always have a great
excuse to walk in unannounced. If your partner is
cheating on you, the first thing they'd do *instead of
welcoming you with a smile* is hide something or
appear surprised or even angry! [Read: 3 big reasons
and 27 excuses behind why men cheat!]
#3 Check their recycle bin. The garbage is a great
place to dispose of things. And sometimes, it also
has a lot of clues. If your partner is on the computer
often, check the computer's recycle bin often.
Chances are, there may be another person's photo or
a little snippet of information that could be of some
use.
#4 Snoop on their phone. Does your partner carry
their cell phone with them wherever they go, even if
it's a trip to the loo? If that's happening in your
relationship, there's a good chance your partner's up
to something. Take a peek into their cell phone when
you get the chance, especially when they've put the
phone on charge.
Erased phone logs, a password protected phone,
several calls to the same unknown numbers, or
phone bills without detailed call information are all
good signs that your partner is trying to hide
something. [Read: 25 reasons why women cheat so
easily on their man]
#5 Spontaneous sex. This works better if you're a
girl, and dating a guy. If your boyfriend or husband
comes home late from any unexpected delay, try to
have spontaneous sex with them when they get back
home. If your guy gets angry, pushes you away or
tries avoiding it at all costs, chances are, he may be
exhausted down there. He could always wash
himself up before getting home, but getting it up
immediately and blowing a huge load, that's not the
easiest thing to do!
#6 Follow after a fight. Most cheating partners
intentionally try to pick fights, slam the door and
walk away, because it makes a great excuse to slip
out of the house and meet their adulterous lover. If
your partner's been picking fights and walking out of
the house often recently, try to follow them on the
pretense of apologizing *if they see you following
them*. [Read: 10 tips to fight fair in love and get
closer after a fight]
#7 Change your sleeping habits. If your
partner's cheating on you, their sleeping habits may
change almost overnight. They may stay up longer
using the excuse of work, or you may catch them
sneaking around the house late at night. Pretend like
you're asleep as soon as you hit the bed, and try to see
if your partner's up to something. Do they get out of
bed for long periods of time?
And it's not just late nights you need to think about.
Some cheating partners may even wake up really
early and get on the phone, especially if they realize
you suspect them.
#8 Does your partner want space? Space is
something all of us need in a relationship, whether
we accept it or not. But has your partner started
getting fiercely protective about their space recently?
Do they hate answering questions about where
they've been or what they've been up to? It's definitely
a small warning sign. [Read: How to give the right
kind of space and prevent your partner from straying]
#9 They get jumpy. Try walking in on your
partner when they least expect it without announcing
yourself, especially if they've been by themselves for a
while. Does your partner act jumpy or nervous when
you walk in on them, especially if they're over the
phone or in front of their computer? They were
probably doing something and they don't want you to
know what it was.
#10 Changes in schedule. All of a sudden, your
partner may stay out a lot of nights on work, or have
a lot of get-togethers on their social calendar with
their friends. If your partner doesn't ever invite you
with their friends, or if they claim to be very busy
working and still look fresh and happy when they get
home, your partner's probably up to something.
[Read: 18 emotional affair signs you probably didn't
even notice!]
#11 The phone etiquette. Your partner suddenly
needs a lot of space while talking over the phone.
They either sound awkward or they walk away from
you to the next room while talking over the phone
with a few people. You may even find text messages
from random numbers with random texts in them.
Remember, when people cheat, they could always
store the other lover's number under another name,
and use code words to interact with each other when
they miss each other!
#12 Gadgets. Your partner has changed most of
their passwords, even if you thought you knew all of
them. And even when you ask them for the new
password, they make an excuse to hide it from you.
And sometimes, you may see that they position their
computer facing away from you, and they would
never do that before. [Confessions: Having an
unexpected affair with a married man turned me into
a home wrecker!]
#13 Grooming habits. Hitting the gym, wearing
new clothes and perfume are all signs your partner
wants to look better. But are they going overboard
with their appearances? Has your partner started
grooming themselves down there meticulously all of
a sudden, even though they aren't keen on doing
something with you?
#14 Sneaking away. Does your partner sneak out
of the house every now and then, using the silliest of
excuses? "I'm driving down to the store to get
something…" "My friends are catching up around the
corner…" "I'm bored, I'm going for a drive…" or
something along those lines?
That's alright though. But when you offer to tag
along, what does your partner say? Do they make an
excuse to go alone? That's fishy, don't you think?
[Read: Emotional cheating and 10 bad ways it can
ruin a cheater's life]
4 shady and sneaky unethical ways to catch a
cheating lover
Now the earlier 14 signs would definitely help you
find out if your partner's cheating on you with
someone else. But if you want to nail them, you're
going to have to catch them in the act. And there's no
way you can do that unless you walk in on your
partner with the person they're cheating on you with.
But if you do choose to go spy-mode and use a few
unethical ways, here are four ways to nail your
partner's cheating backside in no time.
But try these ways only if you're already certain your
partner's cheating on you. These steps are great to
catch them, but if they aren't cheating on you and it
was just a false alarm, your partner may feel
extremely hurt by your actions! [Read: Should you
ever confess to cheating on your partner?]
#15 Hidden cameras. Place a spycam in the room
where your partner hangs out most often when they
want alone time. If they're over the phone or doing
some funny business behind your back, you'll know
soon enough.
#16 Create a fake profile. Create a fake profile and
log on to websites that promote cheating spouses and
see if your partner's using one of them. Or for
starters, just create a fake facebook profile and add a
lot of random friends to make your account seem
legitimate.
And then, send an invite to your partner and get
friendly with them. And over a few days or weeks,
start flirting with them and see how they respond to
you. Are they interested in meeting up or hooking up?
[Read: Is revenge sex a good way to get back at a
cheating partner?]
#17 Keyloggers. Keyloggers are software that you
can download off the net *some free and some for a
price*. Some of these keyloggers, especially the paid
versions, can be installed in a computer and the
person using it would never know it's running in the
background.
These programs can record whatever you want, the
passwords they use, the letters they type, the pages
they visit, or even record a video of the screen as they
use the computer. You can also download a few paid
apps over your phone and install a secret app in your
partner's phone to keep track of their calls too.
[Read: How to end an affair and get over it
completely]
#18 GPS device. Are you the one who wants to
catch your partner red handed? Then the stalker
mode may work for you! Pick up a tiny GPS device
that can be fixed to the underside of your partner's
car. You can track their movements and pounce on
them when their pants are around their ankles in a
sleazy motel out of town! [Read: How to confess to
cheating on your partner the right way]
Use these 18 ways on how to catch a cheating
partner, and there's no way a cheater can get away
with their adulterous ways. But remember, don't use
the last four ways unless you're certain your partner's
cheating on you already and you just want to
confront them in the act!
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