mistake or two in the bedroom from time to time and
some end up fumbling more times than their favorite
football team. It's up to you to keep things interesting
and to avoid making sexual errors that irritate
women. So if you steer clear of the following 10
behaviours, you will be headed toward being the kind
of lover that attracts women like magnets and keeps
them coming back for more.
1. Not Returning Sexual Favours
Women often complain about men who gladly accept
oral pleasuring but never return the favor. Being a
selfish lover can be an intimacy killer because one
partner cannot be expected to continually please the
other while not being pleasured themselves.
Although you may get incredible sexual gratification
from your lover's abilities, just remember that she
needs some attention too.
2. Insufficient Foreplay
At one time or another, we've all experienced a
moment so passionate that wasting time on foreplay
was unthinkable; however, getting caught up in the
heat of the moment is quite different from pouncing
on her out of nowhere, and cutting straight to the
chase on a regular basis. The thing that makes sex
incredible for a woman is anticipation and being
sexually teased, and insufficient foreplay can
undermine the entire act of sex. Take your time and
master the art of foreplay in order to drive your
woman wild.
3. Being Silent And Emotionless
Women want and NEED strong emotional
experiences in bed. Men generally believe that
remaining silent during the act, is a better option
than speaking out what they desire, but if you are not
talking during lovemaking and creating a strong
emotional experience for her, she can't be totally
fulfilled. Something as simple as a little moan, or
even saying something like, "That feels so good", will
encourage her.
4. Assuming She's Satisfied
Concentrating solely on your own sexual
gratification is likely to leave your lover feeling
underwhelmed or unsatisfied once you finish. Just
because you got off, that doesn't mean that she's
satisfied. Remember, a good lover makes the effort to
make sure his partner is satisfied before he is.
5. Lack Of Grooming
When you're in the throes of passion, having your
beard stubble brushing back and forth across her
body isn't so sexy. If there's one thing that turns
women off, it's a lover whose personal hygiene isn't
up to par. Keeping yourself clean and properly
groomed-especially in the more intimate corners of
your anatomy, is not just a matter of courtesy, it's a
ticket back to the bedroom.
6. Not Lasting Long Enough
This mistake is well known and very simple, but no
list of mistakes in the bedroom would be complete
without it. You need to have good penile control to
ensure that you can ejaculate at an appropriate time.
If you can't control yourself and end up letting go too
soon, spend a lot more time on foreplay. Although it
is a debatable topic, most women will be happy if you
can last at least 20 minutes.
7. Ignoring Her Erogenous Zones
Most women have more erogenous areas than simply
her breasts, nipples and genitals. Take the time to
learn your lover's other hot zones, particularly her
neck, shoulders, back, buttocks and feet. Focus on
her entire body. It will turn her on more and in turn,
increase the chances of her pleasuring you back.
8. Forcing Sexual Fantasies
Men often commit the mistake of not respecting a
woman's comfort zone and simply expect women to
do just about everything in bed to please them. Most
women have an adventurous side and are willing to
try new things in bed once they trust their lover
enough. But, if you ever want her to reach that point
with you, the last thing you should do is impose your
sexual desires and fantasies upon her too soon into
the relationship. Remember, real sex is not like sex
in adult films, so always try to introduce new
positions and reveal fantasies slowly but surely.
9. Thinking What Works For One Works For
Them All
Men often make assumptions about what a woman
wants based upon what they've done with other
women, however, there is a great deal of variation
between what different women like in the bedroom as
well as their own differing levels of experience and
confidence. If you have trouble reading your
girlfriend or wife's responses, there is no harm in
asking her directly what she likes. Even if you feel
that you do know what will keep her satisfied in bed,
constantly giving her a variety of sexual experiences
is the fastest way to a varied and fulfilling sex-life.
10.Not Kissing Her Enough
Believe it or not, many men don't kiss the woman
they're with when they're having sex, and that's one
of the biggest mistakes to avoid in bed. Women love
being kissed because it makes them feel soft, sexy
beautiful and adds the romance that they crave.
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