Lots of guys pamper a woman's breasts during
foreplay but forget about them during the main event,
which is a shame because the extra stimulation can
lead to a bigger orgasm for her. Plus, it's important to
pay attention to more than just her nipples, since her
entire breast is packed with nerves, especially the
underside. When she's on top, use your fingertips to
draw wide, slow circles, starting around the
perimeter of one breast and spiraling in until you're
just about at her nipple. Then use your hand to cup
and lift the underside of her breast, and lick around
her nipple before covering it entirely with your mouth
and sucking gently.
9. Give her a G-Spot orgasm
This much-talked-about area is located about 2
inches inside her vaginal canal on the front wall.
Some docs say it's spongy and the size of a dime, but
it can be hard to feel, so just stimulate that general
area during sex and you may give her a more intense
orgasm. To hit it with your penis, try modified
doggie-style. Instead of having her keep her arms
straight with her palms on the bed, ask her to lower
herself onto her elbows. Holding her hips for
balance, thrust slowly at first and then up the
intensity. With each stroke, your penis will rub
against the front wall of her vagina, stimulating that
special spot.
8. Surprise her with a quickie
When you jump her out of the blue, it makes her feel
like she's so irresistible that you simply can't wait to
have her. Right when she gets home, pull her in for a
deep kiss to get her going. Relieve her of any bags
she's carrying and lead her to the couch, bed, or
kitchen table, where you will have already stashed a
bottle of lube nearby. Don't totally undress her; just
lift up her skirt or pull down her pants. Then use your
lubed fingers to massage her clitoris while
whispering how hot she is in her ear. The more
aroused you are, the faster she'll get into it. (Of
course, there will be times when she's not game. If
that happens, let it go and try another night.)
7. Gently pull her hair
There are thousands of nerves in the scalp, and when
she's aroused, they're more sensitive, so pulling on
her tresses feels extra stimulating. But there's a
catch: If you do it while you're having sex with her
from behind, it'll make her feel like you're treating
her like a hooker. Instead, while she's on top, run
your hand through her hair, grab a handful of
strands close to her scalp, and give it a little pull.
This works especially well when you're having
intense, passionate sex, because grabbing her
anywhere, especially somewhere sensitive, adds to
the feeling that she's being ravished.
6. Talk dirty to her
Women are verbal creaturesand our love of words
extends to the bedroom. Unfortunately, most of what
you may have heard guys say in porn is all wrong
(Ask "Who's your daddy" and you just might get a
slap across the face). What your partner does want to
hear are phrases that let her know how turned on you
are, how much you love her body, and how good you
want to make her feel (see this month's CFG Sex Map
for more tips). And even more important than what
you say is the way you say it—when she can hear the
burning lust in your voice, her thighs pretty much
catch on fire.
5. Nibble on her neck
The skin that stretches from underneath her ear to
her collarbone is very thin, making it supersensitive
to touch. Start out by using your tongue to lick from
her ear down to where her neck and shoulders meet.
Then blow along the trail you just left. The warmth
of your tongue coupled with the coolness of your
breath will shoot tingles all over her body. After that,
get a little more aggressive, and lightly nip the
bottom of her neck (the skin is slightly thicker here
and can take more pressure). You should suck on her
neck too, but for just a second and not hard enough
to leave a markhickeys are so high school.
4. Bring her to climax with oral
A luxurious oral-sex session allows her to kick back
and enjoy being spoiled. (Sound familiar?) But
different techniques may feel more or less pleasurable
to her on different days. To figure out what's going to
work best for her each time, be sure to use a variety of
moves. Try licking softly, sucking, and using a firm,
pointed tongue and then a wide, soft one, and take
note of which she responds to the most
enthusiastically. When you sense that she's about to
orgasm—her body will tense up and she'll start
breathing more quickly—go back to the move that
elicited the biggest moans, and continue doing it
until she climaxes.
3. Touch her hot spot midaction
Most women can't orgasm during intercourse
without clitoral stimulation, which is probably why
so many want more of it! Whenever your hand can
reach her clitoris (girl-on-top and spooning from
behind are two great positions for access), you
should rub her hot spot. Your touches should be slow
and soft in the beginning, progressing to harder and
quicker. When it comes to technique, every woman is
different, so you have to experiment: Try one finger
pressed directly on her clitoris, three fingers over the
entire area, or the heel of your hand on her pubic
mound—her moans will tell you when you have it
right.
2. Kiss her during sex
If you're like most guys, once intercourse starts, you
probably stop kissing her. That's a bad move, since
kissing makes sex feel more intimate for her, which
is crucial to female pleasure. Pick a position that
allows you to be face-to-face, like missionary, or
have her sit on your lap, then mix up your smooches
so they mirror the mood of the sex you're having. If
you're going at it like gangbusters, pull her in for a
deep, tongue-filled kiss—try sucking on her bottom
lip and pressing your lips firmly against hers. When
things are slow and romantic, go with a more
sensual kiss.
1. Be more aggressive
The number one thing women want is for you to be
more aggressive in bed. That means handling her
body with strength and confidence, which can be
insanely erotic for her. And it doesn't require a lot of
work or advanced skills on your part. In fact, doing
just one take-charge thing can spike her arousal
level. A few to try: In missionary, take her wrists and
hold them above her head, pinned to the mattress.
When she's on top, hold her hips and push/pull
them back and forth, so her clitoris grinds against
your pubic bone. And when you want to change
positions, don't do it slowly or politely—grab her and
put her where you want her.
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