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Wednesday, 13 August 2014

Dear LIB readers, should I marry her?

From a male LIB reader
I've been dating this lady for 3 years and was
preparing to ask her to be my wife. She is 28,
educated, lives alone and has a decent job. However,
she doesn't clean and hardly cooks.
Last Saturday I went to visit her expecting to spend
the night, on the way I got some food which I ate at
hers. Shortly after my arrival she cooked, ate and fell
asleep in the living room. While she was sleeping I
cleared the plates, took them to the kitchen and put
the rest of the food on the cooker in the fridge.
About an hour later when she woke up she walked
into the kitchen to see I had not washed the plates.
Irritated and annoyed she started complaining "You
couldn't even wash the plates, ordinary plate you
couldn't wash".
Then went into her room and locked the door as I
ignore her. So I let myself out and went home. The
next evening with little to no communication
throughout the day she sent me this message.
(above). Continue...
"Eating p***y, washing dishes...Anything else on
your 'don't do list?'"
As a result of this together with instances in the past
where she has failed to guard her tongue and more
importantly apologize, I'm starting to think that a
lady who comfortably sends such a message 24 hours
after such an incident to someone she claims to want
to spend the rest of her life with is not wife material,
girlfriend material maybe but certainly not wife
material.
As she clearly has no respect for me as her future
husband nor for her role as the woman of the house -
more so in this case where it is her house. It seems to
me like this it how it starts.
I don't think I am overreacting but it will be good to
know what the female LIB readers think.
Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless handheld from Glo Mobile.

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