If you had a job interview you were nervous about, or
a doctor's appointment, a meeting about a possible
promotion, or just something you had once
mentioned was coming up and he makes a point of
calling you up after to ask how it went, he is serious
about you. Men who aren't serious about a woman
make a point of not asking for too many details about
her life.
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#2 Clarify missed calls
Did he take hours to call back? Did he completely
forget to text back? If you're just someone he is
having temporary fun with, he isn't concerned about
you getting pissed about those things. But if he
makes a point of saying, "Hey, sorry for taking so
long, I was hung up in etc, etc" or "Oh my god I just
realized you sent me a text when I was at work and I
completely forgot to answer! I'm so sorry!" then
you're not someone he is willing to let go of easily.
(Men know how much delayed call or text-backs
upset us).
#3 Offer to help
When you mention that you're moving, or putting
together some furniture, or looking for a new car,
does he jump at the chance to help? Does he often
look for ways he can be of service to you? Men don't
do that just for a woman they are trying to sleep with
or casually date for a short period of time. They save
that type of effort for ones they are serious about.
#4 Plan ahead
If you're just a fling to him, you are (unfortunately)
kind of replaceable. But, if he is serious about you, no
one else's presence will do. You'll know that is the
case if he asks you a significant amount of time
ahead of time to reserve a day so that you can be his
date to something. That means he wants to
guarantee he gets your time.
#5 Care about your career
If he really cares about you, he wants all the other
things in your life that make you happy to go as well
as possible! If a man has clearly put time into
thinking about your career, and coming up with
suggestions for how you could advance it or be
happier in it, he plans on being around for a while.
He is making sure things in your future will be good.
Because he plans on being with you then and he
wants to be with a woman who is happy.
#6 Brags about you
If he isn't serious about you, he may bring you to a
party or a friend's get together, but he'll most likely
leave you to fend for yourself. If he is serious about
you, he is proud of you, and he will make a point of
being near you to introduce you to people and tell
them all about you and your accomplishments.
#7 Just wants to cuddle
No man who is trying to keep things casual is going
to make the terrible mistake of sending a, "Can't you
just be next to me so we can cuddle?" text. They know
that sends a serious signal. If a guy sends this type of
text, he likes you.
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